Edited by :Azah Edem(Aedtin)
Ladies may feel like they experience orgasms less often than guys.
Studies shows that many ladies(about 70%) have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex. This indicates how important a guy becomes to lady when he is able to break that ice by making her cum. Below is the certified format which needs to be strictly adhered to in order to give her a mind blowing orgasm.
1. Explore her
Keep in mind that every lady’s body responds differently to various kinds of sexual stimulation , and every lady has different preferences for how she likes to be stimulated. That’s why communication with a partner is very important.You ain't a psychic, avoid trying to read her mind. Explore her to know which stimulation really makes her feel highly titillated and also what could turn her off completely. It makes you know what to do and what to avoid.
2. Put her in the mood
It will be very difficult to enjoy sex and reach an orgasm if she is uncomfortable, self-conscious, or doesn’t feel quite right about what’s going on. You need to make her comfortable, joke about things, clear her doubts and make her feel relaxed.Sexual pleasure for ladies has a lot to do with emotion and relaxation.
3. Building a lot of sexual tension
Tell her how much you love her. Let her know how lucky you are to have such a wonderful and priceless person like her. Whisper something naughty. Tease her with your lips. Put out the light and play some music( rnb or jazz).
4. Slow n lasting foreplay
This should last about 20-30mins but should be more if you have early ejaculation issues. Kiss her lips slowly and passionately, gently squeeze her breast starting from the left breast (don't ask why, just do that. It works magic). Remove her clothes slowly, play with her nipples.
5. Concentrate on her hot spots area
Still on foreplay, pay much attention on her erogenous areas(ear lobs, nipples, inner thigh, gspot, clitoris, butt, neck). Be experimenting various areas using different degrees of stimulations(kissing,touching,teasing,sucking). Increased moaning in an area during stimulation deserves more attention and needs firmer and stronger stimulations.
5. She will beg, but please ignore
Stimulate her nipples using your thumb and index finger. Suck her breast, use your tongue to tease her nipples. Stimulate her clitoris with 2 fingers. Keep stroking her clitoris gently at first, then faster and more firmer. When she is excessively wet insert your finger so that it touches the front wall of the vagina,with your palm on the clitoris, insert your index finger inside the vagina, stroke back and forth to
stimulate the Gspot.(rough-like texture in the vagina). Start slowly and softly. Begin to build intensity by using longer and more firmer strokes. You may insert another finger or two.Speed up stimulation of both the clitoris and the g-spot.
5. Until she cums don't stop
By now she should be seriously moaning, go down on here by licking her clitoris. Don't rush things. Before penetration, stimulate her clitoris with the glans of the penis, insert only when her juice has wet ur penis. Whiles stroking her keep your hands and mouth busy by stimulating the clitoris,nipples, kissing and sucking her breast.You may alternate sex position especially the cowgirl and doggy style. These have been proven to have extra stimulation on the G-spot.( Note Never stop stimulating de nipples n de clitoris).Speed up even more and finally go as fast as you can until she climaxes.
7. Indicators of reaching orgasm
Some ladies will squirt, some may push you away to pee, some may hold you tight and may even bite your lips or scratch you. Mostly you should feel the vaginal wall tighten and thus putting pressure on your penis(during penetration) fingers(during fingering) or tongue(during oral sex) , this means you’ve done the job well.
Boom! You’re all done!.
7. Cuddle her afterward
Ladies greatly cherish cuddling immediately after sex. Rest for sometime and you can repeat procedure as many as you want if you still have enough zeal and strength to do so.
Satisfying her sexual needs perfectly always drives her insane and instantly creates strong emotions a female for you.
Our next story will be on how to exclusively make her squirt without penetration
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